Empty. I do not go a day without listening to music. It helps in so many ways. It lifts you up, helps you relax, helps you to be in the moment, passes the time, and many more reasons beyond that. I’d be lost without it.
We usually only decorate and dive deep into Halloween and Christmas. We enjoy putting up decorations and watching movies that represent either one of those holidays. Most other holidays we take it easy and relax and enjoy the time off from work and the school routine. Thanksgiving (we live in the U.S.) is spent with family close by but travel is never part of our holiday plans. Too busy. Better to stay home.
I stay home with my kids and that leads to a lot of leadership type moments. You run the house – choosing dinners, when chores have to get done, keeping everyone in line for school, etc. – so you kind of have to be in charge. Everyone is looking up at you for whatever they need. In that way I do see myself as a leader even if leading isn’t always suited to my personality.
An ideal week: Taking another trip back to Key West and walking everywhere. No car. No commitments. No stress.
An ideal week 2: A deserted beach and plenty of time to walk beside the waves or lounge in the shade.
An ideal week 3: As I get older this is starting to appeal more to me than anything else – a hike or bike ride in nature – by the beach or in the mountains. Making sure my feet and legs move every single day.
Share a story about the furthest you’ve ever traveled from home.
I have been lucky to have traveled furthest from home at least 3 times to the Czech Republic. I remember a train ride through the country, away from the tourist areas, my brother is fluent in Czech, talking out loud in English and having everyone staring at us. I don’t think most of them had heard English before.
What was the last thing you searched for online? Why were you looking for it?
Heavy Metal Band Fulci. They do concept albums based around Lucio Fulci movies.
I am working on scripts for my YouTube Channel Disembodied Screams. Researching the movie Zombie and Fulci’s album Tropical Sun for the two scripts I want to write.
Scooby Doo came to mind immediately. Probably where my love of horror and scary things originated. Saturday morning cartoons were a thing when I was a kid. Enjoyed many of them in the 70s and early 80s. Sesame Street and Mr. Rogers are very early memories too.
Lots of 80’s Sitcoms – I turned from a kid to a teenager in that decade. Consumed many of those now classic shows. Night Court, Golden Girls (funny even as a teen), Cosby Show, Perfect Strangers, Family Ties, Who’s the Boss …. and on and on it goes.
My dad got me into Sanford and Son and to this day we still quote that show.
Tell us about the last thing you got excited about.
Superman
Got back to the theater recently and absolutely loved the experience this movie gave me. Felt like a kid again. And it was my daughter’s first time at the movies. Nice to give her that experience.
Anyone in the saving profession is to be admired – Police, Firefighters, Nurses, Doctors, etc. – and I am always willing to sing their praises.
However, there’s one profession out there that I admire that doesn’t get the praise it should. I do it. I live it everyday. I am in that profession. The stay-at-home and take care of the family profession. It’s 24 hrs a day 7 days a week and you are constantly on call. No matter what time of night or day it’s your job to handle whatever happens – good or bad.
Being home has helped me admire and appreciate what my mom did for me for so many years. I never knew how tough it was raising me and my brother until I stayed home. I admire any person, mom or dad, who decides to take up the reins and stay home full time.
Best thing about being home for me. I am getting to watch my kids grow and to witness their growth each and everyday. That’s the positive that helps me push through the toughest of moments.
What change, big or small, would you like your blog to make in the world?
Rest.
If someone stumbled onto this blog and stopped to read or watch, de-stress, and relax. That to me would be the thing I would want this blog to do. People don’t slow down enough. We need to. Time moves too fast.
In an alternate timeline I’d like to think I will still have the loved ones and friends I have now but I am more successful creatively. I am the published author I have always wanted to be. The Podcast and YouTube Channels are massive success stories. All my creative efforts have paid off and I can share the benefits with those I know and love.